EXpectations
What to expect on an EXcapes holiday
You have chosen a holiday resort which offers a lifestyle experience. You will be among others who have chosen the same holiday for the same reason. Playfulness between couples is common, but not obligatory, so don’t take any interaction for granted. Treat enthusiasm and reluctance with the same degree of respect. Whilst playfulness is common, overt sexual activity in public areas is discouraged and, in consideration of other, this should be confined to designated play areas and the privacy of the guest rooms.
Adventure Travellers (voyeurs)
You like to be part of an erotic, thrilling atmosphere as this enhances the libido within your own relationship. You get aroused and recharged in this sexually charged atmosphere but do not have any desire for play or interaction with anyone other than your own partner.
Virgin Explorers
You are couples who have not really been involved in lifestyle before. You have probably talked with each other about experimenting and developing within your relationship. A lifestyle holiday away from home, with the sun on your back is the ideal opportunity to try lifestyle for the first time.
Seasoned Swingers
You know who you are – you may be a member of a swingers club at home or you may be a regular visitor to lifestyle resorts on holiday. You might even have a tree planted in your honour at Hedonism II (an accolade after 25 visits).
Nudity
Each resort has a slightly different approach but nudity is accepted at all our resorts during the day. At some resorts its possible to go nude 24/7, others ask you to dress for dinner or whilst indoors. Dressing up is good fun too! What about that outfit you bought at Cap d'Agde that you dare not wear anywhere else!
Groups
By nature, a swingers holiday choice tends to be popular with individual couples but if you are lucky enough to be able to holiday with your like-minded friends then we would be delighted to tailor make your group holiday to suit - come and join us!
Lifestyle Etiquette
Be Courteous
Be aware that this is a lifestyle full of insecurities and uncertainties. Courteously is how we all want to be treated - with kindness, thoughtfulness, understanding and sensitivity. In essence, courtesy is about treating people the way you want to be treated.
Be Friendly
Whether or not you are personally interested in someone, be friendly, polite and respectful whether you are attracted to that person or not. You never know, you may share many other interests or you may meet that person again, and they may introduce you to someone with whom you ARE compatible and do wish to share time.
Cleanliness
Nothing turns a person off faster and more effectively than an un-fresh body or breath.
Respect everyone's feelings
Beware – not everyone is comfortable in all situations. Keep your eyese open for signs that your partner and others are relaxed and enjoying themselves. Bear in mind that not everyone feels the same or enjoys the same level of activity.
Don't be pushy!
If you are interested in someone, let them know in an inviting way; if they are interested, they will respond positively. If they are not and say 'No, thank you,' do not ask WHY. Everyone has the right to say 'NO' at all times, to anyone, without explanation. Do not ever forget that.
Only do what is fun for you
There is no need to become involved with people you are not interested in and no reason to involve yourself in a secene you are not comfortable with. You have chosen this lifestyle to enjoy yourself – so only do what you want, when you want and with whom you want.
Alcohol
Some of us drink socially and at times, a few drinks are nice to help you ‘relax’. However, over-indulging may offend. If you have to over indulge in order to participate then swinging might not be a natural lifestyle choice for you.
Enjoy yourself
Most important, have a good time, explore your sexuality, act out your fantasies and enjoy everything this lifestyle has to offer with a positive attitude, enthusiasm and laughter.
